Documenting the annual gathering of the 'Qiumingshan' group. In early 2026, a group of old colleagues, now scattered far and wide, reunited at the 'Sleepless Marquis' teahouse, chatting freely about career changes, parenting life, and recent life updates. This article records this淡泊 friendship that transcends being colleagues, and those warm moments that remain even without frequent meetings.
A former programmer shares how, after starting freelancing, he abandoned rigid schedule management to find a way to coexist peacefully with time, and shifted from 'casting a wide net' to 'digging a deep well' to explore a product path that suits him. This is a sincere experiment note about internal friction, efficiency, and personal work philosophy.
A few days ago, while chatting with my mom about work and income, I suddenly realized: the differences in people's choices ultimately stem from differences in their ideas. This made me wonder: if I could go back to my early twenties, which ideas do I wish I had understood sooner?
